Ms. H, I'm very sorry he's still at it. The man can't stand the thought of you being happy and succeeding in life. He's very jealous and envious that you are able to move on w/your life and what he's seeing is that he's supporting you in doing this. He's angry and very, very resentful. He wants you to grovel for every cent and, in his mind, he wants you to suffer. He still thinks in his warped mind that you are the problem and he wants to find a way to get rid of it. Not once has he considered that had he worked w/you on all accounts, he wouldn't be sitting in a court room or having to deal w/lawyers.
If your lawyer needs to, he can subpoena the tax and payroll documents for proof of what the man earns. I do think that he's deliberately hiding his earnings from you and the judicial system, but your lawyer and the judge will get to the bottom of this and very soon. Maybe, for now, the grandfather is assisting in the payment of the lawyer, but I can't help but wonder why the OW isn't helping him with this....
Please take care of yourself....time will take care of this problem.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
