Hi SC,
I agree with CW, your H doesn't know what he wants. He sounds like he on the ultimate roller coaster ride! I think you are wise to stand way back and continue to detach and watch. He's no where near done and is just spinning. I can't imagine that someone could keep up the pace that he's seems to be going without bottoming out from pure mental exhaustion at some point.

I'm sure some of our MLC scholars will be able to explain what's going on and why your H is acting as he is.

Hang in there. We're here for you.

(((Hugs)))