So my H did what someone earlier in the thread said is typical - in exchange for legal separation, he said he would agree in that agreement, to go to MC. I stupidly fell for it, got him in MC, thought we were working on things - he made many comments about this although he continued to fence sit, it was "if we reconsile" all the way.
Boom, the legal separation is finalized, boom, there's been another woman all along.
He didn't leave the marriage for her, he found her after he moved out. However, he made sure he got the legal separation date moved to the exact date he moved out so that when he met her a few months later and was dating, it was "legal". I feel I was completely lied to and swindled.
SO any advice? IT wasn't an affair per se as he had already moved out. HOwever, I wasn't notified until a year after he moved out.
