I don't have any advice...more like an exclamation...wow! No wonder you are confused! I think your H does not know what he wants...it is almost like he is trying to get you to decide for him and we know that this not going to work! That is my opinion but will check back and see what others "see"...many (((hugs))) in the meantime!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing