Thank you for saying I'm smart, I just don't feel like it right now. I appreciate the advice & yes, I will do that. I just hope I don't have to hire a lawyer.
I know what you mean Trusting, I knew she was trying this but I really didn't think they would be able to adopt, especially at their age!! I guess the laws are not as strict in Laos as they are here.
It has made me very sad! I guess I never expected this, well I know none of us on this site never expected to be here. He told me when we couldn't have kids that he didn't care as long as we had each other that was all we needed. They like to scuba dive & go places, with a baby that is not going to be like that. They can't put the baby in a kennel like they did their dog.
I know I have to move on & I'm doing pretty good, this just threw me. I guess I really always thought, because of the love we had for each other, that he would be back. He didn't like women like her, I used to work for someone like her, except the woman I worked for wasn't this bad, but he didn't like her at all & didn't want me around her outside of work very much. His best friend told me last year that he didn't even know him, he was so spineless, no backbone, no imput, no control, she had total control over him. Scary.
Ok, sorry I didn't mean to vent, I guess I just needed to a little bit.
