Oh, and what does this mean.....

He says he wants us to be together, and is pushing really strongly, but at the same time the way he talks is about separate futures.....

Like what "HE'S" going to buy next for "HIS" apartment, or where "HE" wants to take the kids on his visitation time, or what "I" should learn to do for "MY" house, or that "I" will be OK no matter what happens.

What's that all about?