And what about YOU? What are you doing to GAL? You do know you can have a life without her, right? And that in no way commits you to a D - to actually be You and Live without her. So your children don't have beds in your home? Dude - fix that. Make that dream home YOUR HOME. When I left my H and our DREAM HOME, he planted flowers in the flower beds and moved his drum set into the middle of our beautiful living room. He made the space I left ...HIS. Rattled my cage! Think about that!
Tell her that you will have your children at least 50% of the time. Period. Propose a schedule. Ask for her to agree to it. If she will not, hire a legal gun to hash it out in the court. You should have a lawyer anyway. Your W is dissolving your M a little at a time - why are you letting her have this head start. Take control of this.
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Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
