Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
[quote=Dan1977]Knowing my wife, aggressive behavior or having ultimatums will backfire in a heart beat, and I believe more passive behavior will work best.


You are scared of her and it shows. Passive is what you are most comfortable with and you are hoping that it will work. It won't. It never has and it will not now. Geez, Dan, you let your woman sleep in another bed for a year and a half? You needed to call that meeting to order a long time ago. And now you are experiencing the consequences of .... passive behavior. It clearly has not worked. What it has done, my friend, is to drive you W into the arms of another man.

Attract her with strong, decisive behavior.

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