Glad to read that you've been feeling good DU . I think you should only see your H if it feels right to you. I agree that it's not your responsibility to ease his conscience or give him closure before he leaves.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.