Thanks Trent that does make sense..... I have never told him he couldn't come home. He just thinks he shouldn't because he has so much guilt (and he is still seeing the ow). I sure hope she really is leaving at the end of May for the other side of the country. I think it will help my h to focus more on what he needs to do.
I don't think he is capable of much right now except being in his fantasy land.... sad but true.
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present