Thanks Luvless. I find this stitch so hard to understand. My MIL always joked that I was her favorite daughter-in-law and that she will always take my side. We have always been so close. I have always considered my FIL like a dad - I have known him longer than I knew my own dad.

Their behaviour shows that they are condoning my H's behaviour. On top of that my sons are there. This must be so confusing for them. My in-laws normally stay with us and now they are staying at the OW's house. I just want my sons home with me and not aroudn people with clearly no conscience or morals.

I will contatcting my L on monday and stopping overnight stays. I can not let my sons stay with deceitful people and people who continue to lie. Anyway my H still does have a suitable apartment for them to sayd in - only a one bedroom. He said he would start to look for something bigger but hasnt and secondly my sons never know where they are going to stay - each time is different. One of sons shares a bed with my son and the other is in a camp bed.


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