He knows how you feel. If you have told him, then he knows. He may not feel capable of returning those feelings, but that is not something you can help him with.
The best thing you can do right now is take the pressure off of him. Let him do whatever he needs to do, and you take care of yourself. You can't help anyone if you are an emotional wreck.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement