We're still very transparent with each other, and she still tells me things that are on her mind (and frequently says, I don't know why I'm telling you this, or I should tell you this). She is still struggling with not treating me as her "best friend" at times. The weird thing is that we can and do come back to that after some very bad contention.
But, she has been trying hard to maintain boundaries with the physical affection. For that matter I've been maintaining the boundries too. I don't think that was her intention.
Because she knows - that would screw her up too. Which is maybe a good point that popped into my head just now - I think we're BOTH starting to "get it" regarding that part of the detachment.
OK things to do - I've got a bunch of lumber now. Need to eat. It's Saturday, off the computer.
I like yoga BTW. Wish I could do it more than every other weekend.
