You will. Have faith. It's a process, go through it. Embrace it.

Now, go outside, don't stay home. Force yourself to do so.
The weather should be good this time of the year.
Make any excuse, anything will do, grocery shopping, gym or just go for a walk. Listen to upbeat music, something yours, nothing that makes you think of your W. For example: My W used to hate electric guitars so now I play lots of metal on my ipod. Reminds me of my teenage years when I was so full of possibilities. Makes me feel that way again. I'm loving that.

You'll struggle no doubt about it but there's no other way to do it. Be strong.
You know you can handle this.

Now, me, I'm not there 100% yet but I'm doing my best and I'm confident I will get there soon.


Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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