W BF offered her support - I just asked her to be frank and open about her disdain for the EA.

At least one of them is seeing it. My parents are being good I told them then asked if they could be strong and supportive but not bring it up with me unless I want to. I'm being a rock for D and don't need my mother getting all soft on me and sucking me into a pity party.

MIL/FIL - heads in the sand, don't know what to do.

Part of me wants to just give in to all this and let it go. As long as I can get the right arrangement for D and I.

I don't know it might be better for my sanity.

Last edited by BWP; 04/24/10 07:45 PM.

M 40
W 39
D 4
M 5 years
Bomb dropped 08/09
In house separation