when you tell your wife you have plans and she invariably asks "where are you going?"
- tell her it's really none of her business, yes it will take alot of guts especially from you to say this to her,
remember, she chose to move out of the home and now you are starting to question your feelings about her and the idea of marriage, you don't want to be married to a flake that flip flops back & forth over their marital commitment - you would rather be with someone who WANTS to be with you and if she doesn't want to be with you, she needs to stay where she is.
