My DB coach suggested that i give her space since we were still sleeping in the same bed and living under the same roof. I totally did the opposite. I followed her around, begged, pleaded, etc. So much so that she has moved out. I know that its stressful on her with 3 small kids but she says that the reason she moved was to hopefully get feelings that she once had for me again and to work on herself/ clear her mind. Do you think that she in sincere in this or is it away to be with OM?
NO she isn't sincere, she now has a place to bring the OM when you have the kids at your place, the DB coach should know better about this. A WAS wouldn't need a different place to live if they were going back to school to improve their education, if they were trying to improve their job so why would the WAS require a different home to improve their marriage?
I agree that you being needy, insecure, wussy like killed the attraction, you now have to appear the opposite with her and that will be hard for you because it sounds like you're whipped.
