The fact that I am looking forward to W moving out is a good sign for me personally I realize. I would have been mortally afraid several months back.
This IS a good thing. It will keep you in the proper detached DB mindset. Plus it will be good for your wife to see it too. When you are not holding her back or chasing after her, it may have the desired effect of her wanting what she can't have. Plus it will remove what she probably sees as her "safety net" if her fantasy life proves to be something otherwise, creating more risk for her decision.
She seems wobbly in her conviction (especially with lame excuses for not leaving like there being no furniture) so the more risk she sees, the better.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
