I believe in some states you can sue for loss of affections is it?? in US.I think as a start the WAS should forfeit all financial entitlements and sign everything to LBS and/or children.I also think if they find a new family they should be made to support BOTH/ALL families. I believe organisations where co workers have affairs should deal with it seriously
I'm in UK, and we're heading fast for a separation of 2 yrs with a clean financial break when we are 1 yr after date of our marriage, which is in 3 months time. I have a solicitor's letter from her to that effect. The money she owes is for work I paid for on a property that she used to try and rent out, but is now about to sell. I paid for most of it after she had dropped the bomb and I still thought she'd come around.
Unfortunately she's in an affair with someone who works with me, not with her, so although I've exposed at my workplace, nothing can really be done.
Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.