OfficerInNeed. So far she's still rebelling, wants to feel independant and free of you. I found this link on another forum which shows how a guy handled a similar situation:
I can't understand why these WAW just can't give that feeling up and come on all the way home. Take the pain that you have to take, because obviously you cheated. Your spouse still wants you, and these people outside the relationship, mostly are just playing with you. Why do you need to feel like you get over on your husband? This is what I want to ask the waywards.
DLS if you really feel like this, you have a long way to go. Do you really expect someone to stop feeling the way they feel, to give up those feelings so that they can feel what you feel?
That sounds incredibly selfish to me.
Here's an idea, why don't you give up feeling the way you feel and adopt your WAW's feelings, in fact, it might actually help you DB even more than what you've currently been doing.
