I have been dying to read that book you recommended on improving M without talking about it. I also want to re-read DB section you suggest. I don't even remember that part from my first read, so def need to do that....I read the whole book in one night through tears the day I bought it. My H has been hanging around here the past several nights and we've been just about living at little league games. I just can't get these books out with him or my S8 around.
On a positive note, H left to go to a funeral a little while ago and came up and put one arm around me and gave me a quick peck on the forehead before he walked out the door! I almost fainted!
I really appreciate your advice about H IC days. I am going to initiate that 180 right away. I thought I was doing better by not asking him about his IC sessions, but now I see sitting in the living room waiting for him and acting eager to hear is just about the same as asking out loud. If I am not here, that would be really different.
Thank you for your support. I hope you are doing well.
