what did the DB coach suggest to you, post his suggestions here and then after each suggestion you rec'd, tell us what YOU did based on that advice and then tell us why you stopped doing it.

Also, no need to start a new thread to get attention, it actually tends to piss people off around here when a noobie starts creating a bunch of new threads, you might even find yourself being ignored because of that so just keep replying to this one. Even if you don't get activity, use your thread as a daily online journal, example.

Day 1, Saturday April 24, 2010:
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- my wife came over to pick up a few things
- she admitted there was another man
- she spontaneously ripped off all her clothing and we shagged like wild animals
- it was fun

and then create another post like this the next day, so on & so forth, you will get attention and advice eventually

Hang in there.