OfficerInNeed. So far she's still rebelling, wants to feel independant and free of you. I found this link on another forum which shows how a guy handled a similar situation:

http://www.marriagemissions.com/why-wome...age-2/#comments

I can't understand why these WAW just can't give that feeling up and come on all the way home. Take the pain that you have to take, because obviously you cheated. Your spouse still wants you, and these people outside the relationship, mostly are just playing with you. Why do you need to feel like you get over on your husband? This is what I want to ask the waywards.