Confused again. Wife asked me if I could get the retainer back that I paid for the lawyer. I told her yes but I was working to complete buying her equity from the house and filing since she does not want the marriage anymore. She then asked if I thought she was pretty and that she lost 20 pounds. I told her she is and has always been a pretty woman. She then said I was weired in that I am around her and the kids more and that I am acting different. She is worried about her sister who has metastatic colon ca so she has a lot on her plate. I want her back and believe these may be changes she sees in me. What do I do so I dont blow it. I know I need a solution oriented approach. Any help at there? bobby O