MntTop-I see in your sig, you are on a 6 month probation???

How does that make you feel? Like a little kid in time out?

That's where I've been now for 4-5 years. The last leaving episode by her was going to be for that "6 month probation" period. It's been almost 7. No real joint work on the issues, it just feels like...well if I knew how it felt-like a series of one night stands? With little emotional connection or committment afterwards. I could do this with a gal on the street corner. She just would not be the mother of my kids. (part time mother).