So this a.m. my H said pretty much nothing to me, and I only asked him if I could get him a bagel for breakfast and he replied "No".
When he said goodbye to my S, I didn't pursue anything. Didn't even really look at him. Did say a quiet "bye" which he may not have even really heard.
I read on a different thread about pursuer/avoider dynamics. It's interesting how sometimes he is very much the pursuer, and sometimes he is the avoider. And I have changed up roles quite a bit as well. But I would say in general I am more an avoider than a pursuer, and this was a bit of a 180 for me to pursue with affection.
I am torn right now which one is right. Guess I'll just moniter this for a while.
