lalxx - I never posted to you...just came across your tread. I don't know about the divorce laws in your country, you should consult a professional to see if there would be any potential financial advantage if you filed first on grounds of adultery.
If there isn't, I wouldn't do it. I would let him file for a divorce if he wants one. When he does, the adultery would be disclosed by your lawyer anyway. In my country adultery doesn't make any difference, it's not even taken into consideration when splitting assets, but it could play a role where you are. Also since you are self employed with unstable income, you may have a good chance to get alimony. Check out your legal options before you do anything.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
