HB thank you again for you wisdom. I see so much of my H in what you are describing.
Besides the memory/concentration issues I did notice that he looses track of dates (forgetting daughters Saint's day celebration, mixes up D's activities schedules etc) although it seems to be little better lately.
And he sees me as the stronger one, he even said so. "You are amazing how you handle all of this"
When he is at his lowest he seems to come to me, this was happening throughout his affair as well.
I'm worried about him now that he seems to be really bottoming out, but I guess that had to come in order for him to start climbing out.
Today he called just before I drove D to her activity. Asked if he can come with us that he would like to watch. I picked him up, but I had plans to go shopping while she had her practice, so I just dropped them off and left (in the past I would change my plans and stayed so I can be with him). Also as we drove there D asked H why did he want to come, it's just a practice. He said that he needed to get out of his apartment, that he felt claustrophobic.
He also asked daughter & her BF to come and watch hockey at his place later, but D declined said that they already have plans. He tried to change her mind about 3 times. Did not include me in the invitation...I would have watched with him. Oh well, he's not ready to socialize with me yet I guess.
He did ask me to pick up some groceries for him since I was already going shopping. That I'm good for...lol.
Staying on my path and observing
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
