Need a Plan for My Marriage

[LSG]

Hi DaddyLongShanks,

I know that I am being painted as the bad guy even if I am not. Change that? I don't how I would go about doing that. I would like the answers to that. It is a difficult place for me to exist in. I wish I knew a way to break free from this place. For now it is where I reside trying to minimize the negativity that it could be causing for my M.

I have already thought about the counseling sessions, and I will discuss this with counselor when we are able to talk. We have kept missing each other for some reason. He said he would call back today, but he never did. I guess he was busy. What do you mean by a "matyr complex?"

I do invite her when we go somewhere. It is her choice to go or not.

Thanks for the input.