My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[WhatNow]

Don't ask her for ANYTHING other than get out! She has told you she has no intention of ending it w/OM!

Get her luggage out. Bring home some boxes, and hand her a newspaper.
NO MORE TALK! she knows you want her to choose! If you keep banging your gums she will run. Stop giving her a drama fix!
If you can control your mouth, I think you will be successful.

If she says she wants to stay, That is when you bring up a FT.


BTW, do you see what happened? You made your statement last night. Instead of shutting up about A & M, you got on her about the phone. You pursued. You forced her away. She needs time to process these things.

Ken, I apologize for being so rough. I feel like I am dealing with my little brother here with you. (and puppy has already pointed out that I am being mean today...yikes)
It is also personal for me. I wish someone would have handed me duct tape for my mouth a while back. I would not be where I am now. Stop feeding the romance! she sees you as the bad guy standing in the way of her happiness, so stop giving her that.