My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[ken5140]

Thanks so much Allen and Puppy.

Allen, I have a question. You say:

I honeslty wouldn't HELP her, I would just tell her she's not welcome there anymore...

If YOU PACK or get involved in any way she will just tell everyone that you THREW her out.

Then you said:

Second... start packing up her things...

Is this a contradiction? I know you don't mean it to be. So do I or don't I help her pack?

We do have kids...we have two cute little girls. I want to do this right. Thank you for your suggestions about finances and the FT. I don't know if I can get her to go to a FT at this point, but I can ask her. I agree with you that she is making her choice. I really feel like I can't live like this anymore. I am so disappointed in the way things are turning out, but I don't know what else to do at this point.

Do I ask her to find herself an apartment? I'm guessing the answer is 'yes'. I probably should wait till a business day so I can fix my bank account first.