Good call on the finances.. If you guys do separate them out, I would stop paying for his kids... see how he likes being divorced financially... I bet you he won't like it, but give him a taste of it.
I would NOT have set his mind at ease about you cheating... I would have just waited for him to come out with it. Still thinking on that one...
When he does that, you could ask him if he's interested in a full transparency agreement... My guess is he'll refuse...
Not sure how that would go... you simply setting him a good example of adult behaviuor may be better.. I am still mulling that one over...
