In a real relationship they should be able to see our weak spots without attacking them or using leverage. We know the ways of a WAS is an entirely different creature...
Yeah he probably does not say anything, because even if the ball is not all the way in his court it is damn much closer than it could be.
He shouldn't give that up. Even make it a reality, that there is one or some that he can go to. Thats how these WAS are, they need that pressure.
I've been doing alot of thinking, WAS usually have dozens of pressure points and leverages, how to remove or reverse all of these on them, and is it better to do all at once, or over time... Its the only way.
How to change their perception by what we LBS bring? We definately know we can't say it, but theres alot we can do.