Do you really want a year of hard R work, then back to the same-old? Think carefully about whether you think H is capable, ready, and willing even if he does show interest.
If H wanted to he could and would do the work, but I don't see motivation being there at this point. If he was willing to piece, I would be willing to try...because it's our family at stake. I have a responsibility to the children.
Wow, we cross posted and you stated exactly what I feel about the importance of our childrens' lives
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)