Do you really want a year of hard R work, then back to the same-old? Think carefully about whether you think H is capable, ready, and willing even if he does show interest.
If H wanted to he could and would do the work, but I don't see motivation being there at this point. If he was willing to piece, I would be willing to try...because it's our family at stake. I have a responsibility to the children.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
