Thanks CG. I know you've seen a lot in this forum so I value your opinion even if I wish that there was room for hope here.

I'm not ready to drop the rope yet...but I'm getting there. Want to do those tasks first and be emotionally ready. I have a timeline in mind but I know better than to post it.

I'm not expecting to provoke any big crisis in H...it's a last ditch effort to briefly turn the tables on him and put him in react mode.


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.