Stepping out and Stepping UP!

[cagzmom]

was posting on a friends thread.. time to vent hear.

my x.

what a tool. what a jerk.

last night or shoudl i say yesterday, d13 had a bad day. just a BAD middle school day - and she was sad.

After we talked through all the "stuff".. her little heart peaked out. "I just have been really missing dad, mom." I listened.. and said "you have to reach out to him.. if you miss him call him, if you want to see him let him know." she looked at me with tears in her eyes and said "that wont change the truth mom... I won't ever have my dad kiss me before bed again, or come home to our family again... i wont see him after work, or before school.... and nothing is going to change that.. "

Divorce..

the world says "the kids adjust." or how about "my x is one of my best friends..."

But family is destroyed.

Way to go walk aways.. you did it. You chose your SELF ... you proved yet again (at least in my casE) that you really are the most self-centered person i know... always thought so.. now i know it!

venting....