I put it yet again all out there for the lovely h.
in summary told him either man up be husband and father or get out of our lives for good and FILE!
Well apparently i am supoosed to spend my time while on extended maternity leave at his mother's house so old daughter can visit and i have a relationship with mil.
and supposedly at that point i will prove to h that i have changed....
He is NOT ever going to file, i argued with this issue with myself. db says don't file, let the WAS do all the work.
apprently i am supposed to somehow get me and 2 kids under 3 12 mles away with a broken down care to pick up money and food so h would then support us...
and yet he says he won't come to my house to give us money but will come over to pick up one of the kids, and still doens't mention newborn son. well other then to complain about him not having h's name.
He will never go to court since SB 1070 in az is passed.
in our convos he has even said screw usa, he's going back to mexico. i have that saved for future use!
i've made mention of jobs he has, all illegally. i mentioned to him how scared he must be with new law in effect. that's when he sent the msg about the usa.
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline