DD: I appreciate you trying to deter me from giving up. I am not going to do that, but I am also not going to sit around expecting her to see the light and come running back. I am going to GAL and move forward. W is very, very messed up right now, and I will be there for her when she needs me. I have loved this woman for a long time, and that is not going to go away, D or no D. I am not going to sit by while she EA/PA's with OM as she is getting her D in order. I need to get my life back, with or without her.
Wow Any Chance?, it sounds like we are coming from the same place. My D is coming up and yours is in limbo but we both feel the same way about our W and about ourselves. I wish you the best of luck!
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10