I was considering MIL/FIL, my parents, W BF (although they likely know)
I think I'm just in self preservation mode - I don't want W to make claims about me that aren't true. I work in a sensitive area for scandal and she has this history (i.e. when I exposed and she called her parents to come to the house)
M 40 W 39 D 4 M 5 years Bomb dropped 08/09 In house separation