You guys sound a lot like I did when I was where you are. That is why I'm just trying to deter you from just giving up. I know you want overnight results, but you're not gonna get em, plan and simple. But please, please, know and understand, if you want this to work out in the end, you just have to let it ride it's course as best as possible.
DDay,
I am in no way giving up nor do I expect overnight results. I just needed to let go and GAL and heal me because being around my W while she is in a PA with the "perfect" guy was not helping me. Hopefully she knows from our past talks that she can find me whenever she needs/wants to but I will not be trying to find her because it doesn't help me detach from her.
Thanks for everything and if you can look in on my sitch I would appreciate it.
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10
