Gotcha, lay out the boundaries as they happen. I was confused about that. I really wanted to do a grand announcement. Oh well, he wouldn't have listened anyway.
I did go back through some of the texts he's sent me over the last month. Some of them are interesting... these texts must contribute to why I'm always so confused and emotional.
Pre-Bomb. It was starting to sound good and hopeful….
"And u know what, I had been trying lately and ur attitude has been enough to make me not wanna try much."
"I think we should try (and work on the marriage) and move somewhere warm like vegas or arizona."
"So I was online and thinking taking DD to * (vacation spot) over a weekend would be fun."
Post-Bomb
"So no chance of reconciling or me moving back?"
"So now I get no conversation? (bc I was ignoring him)"
"So now it's over?"
"And what r u thinking cause I was gonna ask I could move my $hit back in, but obviously not."
"Hmmmm so that means ur thinking were done."
"Not like u care but if I could redo things I would."
"Nope it wasn't. (response to me asking if it was worth it)"
"IDK what I was trying to do, even if we weren't getting along. And we may never, but she (DD) is the one I want to be happy."
"U think it got it figured all out, u don't so keep running your mouth. But yes u have been good to DD."
"U can threaten all u want, take me for what I got. And u will be far worse off than what u r right now, oh wait u probably didn’t think of that"
"That's fine, u can turn your phone off. But take my $100 a week in support and compare that to all the bills I pay. I said I would move back but whatever."
"So have you made the arrangements for Disney yet?"
"Are you still planning on playing in that golf outing? (with him)"
???? : ( : 0 ????
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010
Oh well, he wouldn't have listened anyway. 