Possible EA - sitting on the edge

[BWP]

Have an appointment Tuesday - I don't suppose there is any point in letting family/friend know I think they've already chosen their sides.

I'm crushed by this.....

I did email the lawyer (probably dumb) but it felt like calling a bluff.

Hello Ms. Lawyer
I'm in receipt of a letter written by you on behalf of my spouse Ms. W I must say I'm very shocked to have received this letter as it makes reference to negotiating in an amicable way a Separation Agreement. My spouse and I are not separated and live in the same home. Despite difficulties arising from her infidelity she still remains in the marriage. Can you clarify, is Ms. W not returning from her trip to Las Vegas?
Thanks in advance