I have told everyone that my H had an affair but have done so in a lady like manner.His F is not so comfortable and is trying to keep it concealed for as long as possible.(9 mths since BD).My H has still not told his boss he is seperated and living with OW elsewhere.His boss has only heard the stories which are not complementary at all.
It has not stopped him or ow going back to the gym(h gym instructor.Has since moved to another centre but trains where he used to work)to train and work out.Sometimes I think it forces them to put on a united front rather than encourage it to fail??

Has anyone else seen this? I have never approached ow although have been very tempted

Last edited by JacT; 04/23/10 08:38 PM. Reason: additional info
ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith