The journey begins

[kat727]

You had asked earlier about accepting that the divorce was going to happen. For me it was our last meeting with the judge before it would have gone to trial. He had done nothing to move this forward. I didn't want it so I certainly wasn't going to help him.

When he said under oath that it was over, that was it. Part of me died too and I remember crying and told my L to do whatever, I just want out of here. A few weeks later found out it was a done deal.

I didn't know what it would take for me. When you have 4 kids together you hope that they will wake up and see what they are doing. He still hasn't and is marrying the affair partner sometime this year most likely. Not my problem to worry about as long as they don't mess with the kids.

Enjoy your weekend. kat