My WAW - Chat/Text Msg affair with her ex

[Dan1977]

Since this guy possibly has ended his marriage, I feel like my wife is feeding off his situation to do the same with ours. He's fanning the flame and texting her Ex seems like the worst possible scenario if our marriage has any kind of chance. If it is going to end, I want it to be on our own terms and not influenced by the outside world accelerating our demise. She is leaving tonight to go down to her moms so they can have a family breakfast tomorrow. I want to believe her, but obviously I have all kinds of thoughts running through my head right now. I'm playing it cool, playing with my kids, treating her respectfully and trying to be upbeat instead of moping around the house on the verge of meltdown every 30 minutes. I believe I will have the number blocked after she leaves tonight. Thanks for everyones feedback so quickly, I need it. Knowing my wife, aggressive behavior or having ultimatums will backfire in a heart beat, and I believe more passive behavior will work best.