I just received a letter from a lawyer asking me to fill out a financial statement and not to take any 'radical steps which may prejudice my rights' with respect to the matrimonial home.

I need help guys - my W will call tonight to talk with D. Do I mention it, ignore it, fill it out?

Anyone with any thoughts please - I'm not worried about the legal angle. I have an attorney if it goes that way and our jurisdiction is pretty much a 50/50 location which favours shared custody.

I just not how to respond. Of course my gut first said call my lawyer but I want to think this one through.

BF contacting me now makes sense they were worried I'd seen this letter.


M 40
W 39
D 4
M 5 years
Bomb dropped 08/09
In house separation