I am really sorry to hear of the loss your community has suffered. It all can happen so fast...just a second of distraction. I don't allow S17 to even have friends in the car with him without permission. It is such a distraction and kids sadly think nothing is ever going to happen to them.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory