She wants this D so she can be with OM and she wants me as a backup plan and to cake eat and I am basically saying that I have too much respect for myself to allow you to do that to me.
And that's where "loving detachment" comes into play. You have the right idea, it's just the way you word it has to be done just right.
I'd sure like to know how to word it just right. I did already send a text telling her that I was moving on, it's all in my sitch. Haven't heard from her in 9 days so I'm sure that I didn't "word it just right".
Sure could use your guidance on my sitch DDay. Thanks!
Sorry for the hijack Any Chance?.
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10