Understood. I will stick with the method suggest by DB coach. It seemed to be working for the most part. Well to be honest what the DB coach told me to do is what other have suggested in my previous thread "become a person ANYONE would want to be with, not just your W." For the most part I have remained positive and upbeat. As a result my W has not said anything about leaving since I started this approach. Only today when I started to take a new approach acting as if "you want to leave than leave" has she made negative comments....I hope I did not cause too much damage.
In the past couple days I have become defensive to her actions, attitude and comments.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
